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Apartment gossip

It’s kindof funny living in an apartment sometimes. We don’t really know any of our neighbors well, but there is one lady who is kind of the head ambassador/gardener/welcomer/sweet-old-lady of the building. We’ve met her a couple of times and she knows we’re expecting. Actually, apparently, the whole building does. It was rather funny when she knocked on our door yesterday. We were both home from work, expecting to have the baby today, and she had asked whether or not we’d had it yet. Then she asked if I could install a cable splitter for her, since earlier I had told her I’d be glad to help her out.

I realized how much gossip travels when she got a phone call while I was behind her TV. I heard the voice on the other end say “I just wanted to let you know that both 205 cars are in their parking spots.” Then Mary Lou said, “well I actually have both of the 205-ers in my apartment at this minute. And no, they haven’t had the baby.” 😛 So I guess everyone’s waiting on us. I thought it was funny.

I also learned I don’t want to deal with MHTC’s TV-over-the-phone lines. It’s a great concept, but like satellite TV, you can only watch/record 2 or 3 channels at a time… and they run through a converter box. So forget setting up your Tivo (or TV-equipped computer) to record channel X at a certain time. You have to program two things just to get what you want. Cable may be a bit more expensive, but it’s definitely more convenient (well, I don’t have digital cable; maybe that’s a different story… but I digress…).

Back from LA… again

I’m finally home from 4 days in LA, away from my wife :-(. My mom says that’s longer than she and Dad have ever been apart. Well, it’s not like I was free and enjoying myself constantly… I was working three 12-hour days supporting a hospital that was “Going-Live” with Epic software. It was a little overwhelming at first… considering I haven’t really seen the apps I was “supporting” since I went through training 6 months ago. But after awhile, I became a little more comfortable and could sucessfully answer most of the questions I was asked. I spent the first two days working on a general med-surg floor, but on the third day, I weasled my way onto floor three: Labor & Delivery, FCC (Post-Partum care), and the NICU. I didn’t get to see a ton of babies, but I saw a few! I guess I also feel thankful that we’ll be having ours in a smaller hospital with (hopefully) less competition for attention. With 12-hour shifts, I really only had time to get up, go to work, come back to the hotel, grab some food, and fall asleep. So I kept pretty busy, but I did miss Amanda a bunch.

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Speaking of babies…

I’ve been doing a ton of geneaological data entry (6200+ people so far). You know, pretty close to me there have been some interesting trends.

My mom’s mother was one of six girls, no boys. My mom has two sisters and no brothers. My dad’s parents’ first three children were girls. So were my parents’. Each of my three sisters had two girls to start out their families. Hmm.

On Amanda’s side…well, the first FIVE kids born to her parents were girls. And her dad, third-in-line, has two older sisters.

And just in case anyone’s wondering….. the trend continues 🙂 .

Lots of Flessner babies

So.. in other news, I found out two of my cousins, the only other male “Flessner’s” my age are BOTH expecting and due sometime around next March-April. So all three Flessner “boys” are doing their part to carry on the family name. Good work, men!

And, no, we don’t know yet whether or not it’s a boy or a girl, although we may find out on Friday… we’ll see how things go!

Gas is expensive

That’s a given. But it’s really sad when it costs over $30 to fill up a little Chevy Cavalier. I miss living in Iowa. Gas prices have gone from $2.35 to $2.49 to $2.72 here in the last week and a half. Why did I think commuting was so great? Of course, I’ll probably look back on this in a couple of years and wish I could pay $2.72 a gallon. *Sigh*